Vok’s post In a Guild of Strangers got me thinking: how many people are actually proud to be associated with WoW?
Gaming in general is a tough sell to non-gamers, especially in a professional work environment. For starters, it’s seen as fairly childish – only kids play games. That’s changing, especially with younger generations, but it’s still there.
Stereotypes of gamers make us sounds unappealing as people. A definition of gamer from Urban Dictionary is:
Anyone who sits on their ass all day and plays video games either on the computer or video game system. Usually overweight for they sit on thier continually enlarging ass and eat Doritos and beans while ruining the controller. Also they usually smell because they have no regular shower times, only when they can put the controller down for a few minutes. Often enough they forget the most important places to wash while in the shower for they can only think of video games. Also see: soon to be evicted and living with their Grandmother in her basement because they overdraft too much on video games.
Would you want to hang out with someone like that? Worse, would you want to employ someone like that? As with any stereotype, it’s based on the extreme scenario, but it tars us all with the same brush.
The reputation that really causes the issues in the workplace though is regarding interpersonal skills. The stereotype suggests that gamers don’t “do” people – they’re misanthropic, self-centered jerks who can’t carry on a conversation without insulting your mother or making a Chuck Norris joke, as per the below image.

So gamers aren’t that respected. But even if you happen to divulge your dirty gaming habit to someone who happens to have nerdish tendencies themselves, you’ve got issues. World of Warcraft players are seen as the lowest of the low – MMO players stereotypically have no life outside of the game, WoW players are seen at the extreme end of the stereotype. Due to good user experience and marketing and a good brand, WoW has a lot of players. It’s accessible to lots of people. Unfortunately, that creates problems. A sizeable portion of the WoW community seems to be foul-mouthed teenagers and immature jerks who call “FAIL” or “n00b” with the least excuse, giving it an even worse reputation. Let’s face it, hanging around in trade chat sometimes is like hanging around in a club full of stupid, horny 14 year old boys, which brings the reputation down even further.
In theory, games like WoW can be an excellent opportunity to improve leadership and teamwork skills in a high-pressure environment – where else can a young person gain experience in developing a strategy and lead a team of 25 very different people all working together to achieve a goal? Nick Yee at the Daedalus Project did a long-running in-depth study of all aspects of MMO playing, and found that numerous players reported that in-game leadership posts did in fact help them to improve their leadership skills in real life, as per the following quote:
I learned several things; I could manage events for a few hundred people, I could mediate agreements, I began to notice traits in individuals which where helpful in predicting what they were most likely to do next or likely to be interested in. I learned to delegate authority without releasing responsibility. I am very proud to say that my experience strengthened my diplomatic skills which had never been a strong point prior to my experience. [WoW, F, 56]
This kind of experience could be highly valuable in a job interview or workplace situation, but the reputation of games in general and WoW in particular means that gaming leadership skills are embarrassing to admit to at best, and a black mark against you at worst.
So in a job interview, I don’t admit that I play World of Warcraft, or mention games at all. I’m quite happy to mention my triathlon experience and my leadership of a small sporting team, but I purposely leave out my raid and guild leadership history, despite having learned so much more through the latter. It doesn’t feel right, but that’s how it is right now.
What’s your opinion? Does playing games in general or WoW in particular give you a bad reputation?